JAZZ KILLS
So after less than a week in a band I’m not in a band any more.
Jazz got me again, just like in the 11th grade when my music friends, guys who I had known since elementary school, turned into jazz snobs and didn’t want to play fun stuff together any more. Today (and Wednesday, when I was crying in the bathroom) I knew I was in trouble when the other guitarist wanted to play jazz standards and hear me improvise over a 12 chord blues that he was playing with the jazziest of jazzy altered chords. I hate blues. I haven’t soloed over a 12 chord blues since I was 16 or 17 because as far as I’m concerned there’s no reason to unless someone is making you do it. I didn’t think that this band, which I have seen play live, was a straight up jazz band since out of the eight or nine songs I’ve heard them do only two sounded restless, dissonant, and hypercomplex. The rest of the songs are pop/rock I can play easily. It turns out they really are a jazz band, if not completely in music than in ideology. That means that my competent rhythm guitar and bass and pretty good lyric writing skills aren’t enough.
I don’t swing. I groove feebly. I failed the virtuoso test I didn’t know I was taking. I played a straight minor chord when I should have played a Ebm7+9. I am innately not a jazzist.
It hurts like a breakup. I feel humiliated even though the “this isn’t working” conversation happened in the calmest, most respectful way possible. I took myself out for vegan Japanese food to cure my broken heart with miso soup. I cried a little more in the restaurant bathroom. The lucky cat watched me from the back of the toilet. I hope it’s the last bathroom I cry in for a while.
But like a breakup this also means I’m free to do whatever I want. Like not try to scramble songs I’ve already written to make them fit the band I’m not playing with any more or scramble my brain learning dissonant, 100% 16th note bass runs. Like start my own band (East Bay music-making ladies, where are you?) Also to crawl around Craigslist at 2 am fantasizing about finding women to make music with but finding dude after dude who RAWKS.
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